This course is for you if...
You’re curious about kink and tantra, and how they can up level your life.
You have some desires to explore intensity, power or surrender - but you feel shame, judgment or resistance coming up when you think about giving it a try.
You know there is something to these desires though, that there is freedom hidden behind the blockage. You want to feel liberated and confident with all parts of yourself, even the ones you or others around you judge to be ‘Shadow’.
You’re already experienced with kink and you want to take it to new, deeper and more blissfully connected states
You know there can be so much more to kink than just the physical side and you’re ready to explore the emotional, tantric and energetic realms of your play. This course brings neo-tantra and kink together for those wanting to explore the spiritual, sensual realms.
you want to explore new, playful and creative ways to deepen your intimacy and personal development through erotic arts
For some people sex is a function and something to use, and for some of us it is a creative expression and a way to bring joy, play, adventure and excitement into our lives. If you love to get creative and curious with your sexuality, this is the place for you.
Some of the benefits you may experience after doing this course are:
Reconnection to your desires, your body and your erotic fantasies
Reconnection to your aliveness, your vibrancy and self-acceptance.
Confidently combining your kink play with tantric practices and opening up limitless potential for your future explorations
The capability to combine your tantric play with shadow work for rapid transformation
Confidence to communicate your wishes and boundaries with others
Liberation of shame and guilt around your desires
Making peace and building confidence with your shadow side and your kinks
Having an assortment of tools to bring deep connection and intimacy into your play and intimacy
The ability to create a safe container for more trust and vulnerability
Understanding emotional care for yourself and your partner
Exploration of all kinds of different kinks in a safe, playful and pleasurable way
This course is designed for you to do at your own pace and timing. You can start any time and we recommend to not rush it.
So, why did we make this course anyway?
We both have spent a lot of our adult lives between the spiritual and kinky communities, and have a shared passion for conscious, spiritual sexuality that gives space for intensity and kink play.
We both have experienced numerous benefits, self healing and empowerment so that we want to give as many people as possible access to this integrated approach… However we’ve found there are very few teachers in the world who are sharing these kind of tools of these two worlds, and it can be really hard to find them unless you happen to live in a city like Berlin (Where Sanya and I met!).
We want ANYONE who has an interest in this work to be able to find it and learn, not just the privileged few who happen to be in the right city at the right time. This is why we are so excited to have collaborated to create the most comprehensive, informative, deep and transformational course possible.
We love sharing the practices of Tantra and Kink with people so that they can explore their desires, explore their divinity and liberate shame around their sexuality. We believe Kink and BDSM are Sacred explorations of embodiment and Eros, and that it can be done with so much love, presence and magic!
But my kinks are shameful and dark! That can’t be Tantric!?
We believe that with deep self inquiry, consent, communication and internal alignment there are ways to explore almost all kinks between consensual adults in a way that creates deeper unity, compassion and understanding of our true nature.
We cover the most common types of kink in the course and those concepts can be applied in various creative ways.
Shame comes from conditioning around what are ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ ways to explore our bodies and sexualities. When we allow those suppressed parts to be seen and explored we open up the way to deep self love and acceptance. Being loved, seen and accepted for who we are in our totality is one of our deepest longings and to learn ways to share that with partners brings you one step closer to it.
We also talk about how Tantric practices and rituals can be designed to face these taboos and self judgments, and integrate them so they aren’t holding us back or causing us suffering
My kinky desires go back to age seven and I started exploring them with the age of twenty. I had no idea that this would open up so much self healing for me. It was more than empowering to not hide any longer who I am, release childhood trauma and learn about my boundaries and desires. When I eventually started to combine kink with the depth and spirituality of Tantra in 2015 I knew I found my home. I got certified as a Meditation and Yogateacher, Sexological Bodyworker, attended countless workshops and trainings for tantra, dearmouring and massage and am being trained as a Creative Consciousness Coach. Since then I am sharing my passion to bring people into their sensuality and full self expression, in workshops, circles, coachings and bodywork sessions all around the world. I want all people who feel the calling to get access to liberation and pleasure!
I started my journey into the kink world quite young, attending my first fetish parties at 18 and performing at fetish events from 19.
I worked in the adult industry and around Kink for most of my adult life, and also started my spiritual journey through yoga and tantra in my early 20s. I had longed to combine my spirituality and my kink life but couldn't find any other people who were interested in this exploration or any decent resources online about it!
When I moved to Berlin in 2015 I started attending conscious sexuality play parties, festivals and events, as well as learning shibari and really diving into conscious kink finally, as well as getting certified as a yoga teacher and eventually as a integrated sex, love and relationship coach. I ran my first conscious kink party in 2017 and have been teaching and holding spaces for this world ever since.
DO IT AT YOUR PACE
This course is self paced, so when you sign up, you immediately gain access and get to go through the content at your own pace. You can complete the modules in any order you like, but we recommend starting with the first 2 modules then bouncing around wherever you desire!
You can join us on the community calls when you have questions, but besides that it's up to you to explore in your time and at the pace that feels right for you.
We're so excited for more beings on this planet to explore Tantric Kink with us, are you going to join us?
Get a feel for the course with these taster videos we created!
This course is a unique blend of neo-tantra and Kink/BDSM that gives you practical skills, juicy inspiration, deep self-inquiry, tools for maximizing pleasure and for expanding awareness.
Explore Sacred BDSM, Tantra and Kink play through embodied erotic shadow work and sensual exploration, for your liberation and for your pleasure.
This course is trauma-informed, transformational, and a lot of fun! We aimed to create a course that really offers you all the foundations you need as well as leaving infinite opportunities for creativity and bringing your unique desires to the table.
We have entwined our unique experiences of over 20 years combined expertise in these fields, so that people all over the world who want to experience this work can access it, thanks to the magic of the internet! Tantric kink is coming out of the underground and into bedrooms all over the world.
This course is a combination of thousands of hours of trainings, retreats, exploration, experimentation and research into this world.
"I don’t have a partner, is there a point in me getting this course?"
While we provide some partner exercises, so much of the course can give you the inspiration and tools you need for your future lovers/kink partners. We also find that aligning yourself with your desires by making a commitment (like taking this course) can help you call in the kinky tantric partner of your dreams. There are also tonnes of practices to do solo until you do find someone to work with!
WHAT YOU WILL FIND INSIDE THE COURSE
We have split this course into some main sections that you can jump around depending on what interests you.
We recommend starting with the intro, safety and communication sections before anything else because the key to deep, sexy scenes is SAFETY!
From there you can explore whatever jumps out to you most!
There is so much content in this course you can take your time to dive in and explore over months or years.
So, are you a f*ck yes to your pleasure and your power?
We'd love to have you join our community of tantric kinksters.
We have a few options available for payments, whether you want a payment plan or you're ready to pay all up-front!
All members have access to the 'Sensual Artists' community where you can chat and share about your experiences.
Hello and Welcome
Welcome and how to use this course | Who we are | Disclaimer - Important to read!
Introduction To Tantric Kink
Initiation into course Language | What Tantra and Kink have in Common | Tantric History and Kink | Benefits of Kink/BDSM and Tantra | Choosing your Partner | Rituals and Kink | Trauma Aware Kink
Introduction to Communication | Internal Attitude | How to start a Session - Check In | Traffic Light System and Safewords | Aftercare for Bottoms and Tops
Self Exploration and Solo Kink
Importance of Self Connection | Meditation for Grounding and Finding Intention | Practicing Kinky Self Exploration | Guided Kinky Self Pleasure
Partner Play and Building Connection
Intro to Partner Play and Dynamics | Finding common Ground | Intro to Connection Exercises | Eye Gazing | The 3 minute Game | Heart to Heart Breathing | Kinky Heart to Heart Breathing | Somatic Secret & Fantasy Sharing
Dominance and Submission
Intro talk about ideas and options | Bossy Massage | Dom/Sub Exercise Demo
Introduction to Impact Play | Flogging | Spanking | BONUS: Impact Ritual
Tantric ways to Spice Up your Impact Play
The Power of Breath, Sounds and Movement | Microcosmic Orbit for Partners | Spreading Energy | Introduction to the Eye of the Pain | Introduction to the 3 States of Awareness
Introduction to the world of Senses | Sensory Activation | Activation through Candle/Wax Play | Sensory Deprivation | Breath Play | BONUS: 5 Senses Session
Introduction to Primal Play | Rough Body Play | Playfighting | Primal Ritual
Introduction to Fantasy Play | Meditation to find your Fantasy / Role Play | BONUS: Tantric God/dess Ritual
Resourcing and Emotional Care
Intro to Resourcing and Emotional Care | Moving Emotions | Emotional Transfiguration