This is the first course of it’s kind - combining the consciousness expanding and liberating practices of Tantra with the embodied erotic art form of kink.
For those who yearn for a creative, wild and free sexuality and want practical tools for exploring kink in a safe, deep and holistic way that can help on your path of exploration, liberation and deeper understanding of yourself and your desires.
For those who desire to deepen intimacy with their lovers and long to liberate shame. And those who seek the right support to explore their authentic, unique and sensual expression.
This course is for adults of all ages and gender expressions, whether they have a current partner or who want to prepare themselves for future lovers... for those who want to learn, explore and try new things.
We have designed the course to be informative as well as exploratory, guiding lots of solo and partner practices and even including bonus demonstration videos to give you inspiration.
You have some desires to explore intensity, power or surrender - but you feel shame, judgment or resistance coming up when you think about giving it a try.
You know there is something to these desires though, that there is freedom hidden behind the blockage. You want to feel liberated and confident with all parts of yourself, even the ones you or others around you judge to be ‘Shadow’.
You know there can be so much more to kink than just the physical side and you’re ready to explore the emotional, tantric and energetic realms of your play. This course brings neo-tantra and kink together for those wanting to explore the spiritual, sensual realms.
For some people sex is a function and something to use, and for some of us it is a creative expression and a way to bring joy, play, adventure and excitement into our lives. If you love to get creative and curious with your sexuality, this is the place for you.
This course is designed for you to do at your own pace and timing. You can start any time and we recommend to not rush it.
We both have spent a lot of our adult lives between the spiritual and kinky communities, and have a shared passion for conscious, spiritual sexuality that gives space for intensity and kink play.
We both have experienced numerous benefits, self healing and empowerment so that we want to give as many people as possible access to this integrated approach… However we’ve found there are very few teachers in the world who are sharing these kind of tools of these two worlds, and it can be really hard to find them unless you happen to live in a city like Berlin (Where Sanya and I met!).
We want ANYONE who has an interest in this work to be able to find it and learn, not just the privileged few who happen to be in the right city at the right time. This is why we are so excited to have collaborated to create the most comprehensive, informative, deep and transformational course possible.
We believe that with deep self inquiry, consent, communication and internal alignment there are ways to explore almost all kinks between consensual adults in a way that creates deeper unity, compassion and understanding of our true nature.
We cover the most common types of kink in the course and those concepts can be applied in various creative ways.
Shame comes from conditioning around what are ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ ways to explore our bodies and sexualities. When we allow those suppressed parts to be seen and explored we open up the way to deep self love and acceptance. Being loved, seen and accepted for who we are in our totality is one of our deepest longings and to learn ways to share that with partners brings you one step closer to it.
We also talk about how Tantric practices and rituals can be designed to face these taboos and self judgments, and integrate them so they aren’t holding us back or causing us suffering
My kinky desires go back to age seven and I started exploring them with the age of twenty. I had no idea that this would open up so much self healing for me. It was more than empowering to not hide any longer who I am, release childhood trauma and learn about my boundaries and desires. When I eventually started to combine kink with the depth and spirituality of Tantra in 2015 I knew I found my home. I got certified as a Meditation and Yogateacher, Sexological Bodyworker, attended countless workshops and trainings for tantra, dearmouring and massage and am being trained as a Creative Consciousness Coach. Since then I am sharing my passion to bring people into their sensuality and full self expression, in workshops, circles, coachings and bodywork sessions all around the world. I want all people who feel the calling to get access to liberation and pleasure!
I started my journey into the kink world quite young, attending my first fetish parties at 18 and performing at fetish events from 19.
I worked in the adult industry and around Kink for most of my adult life, and also started my spiritual journey through yoga and tantra in my early 20s. I had longed to combine my spirituality and my kink life but couldn't find any other people who were interested in this exploration or any decent resources online about it!
When I moved to Berlin in 2015 I started attending conscious sexuality play parties, festivals and events, as well as learning shibari and really diving into conscious kink finally, as well as getting certified as a yoga teacher and eventually as a integrated sex, love and relationship coach. I ran my first conscious kink party in 2017 and have been teaching and holding spaces for this world ever since.
Members of our course have access to bi-monthly community calls where we connect and share about our journeys, and there are opportunities to ask questions and get some live coaching around topics coming up for you in your life.
This course is trauma-informed, transformational and a lot of fun! We aimed to create a course that really offers you all the foundations you need as well as leaving infinite opportunities for creativity and bringing your unique desires to the table.
We have entwined our unique experiences of over 20 years combined expertise in these fields, so that people all over the world who want to experience this work can access it, thanks to the magic of the internet! Tantric kink is coming out of the underground and into bedrooms all over the world.
This course is a combination of thousands of hours of trainings, retreats, exploration, experimentation and research into this world.
While we provide some partner exercises, so much of the course can give you the inspiration and tools you need for your future lovers/kink partners. We also find that aligning yourself with your desires by making a commitment (like taking this course) can help you call in the kinky tantric partner of your dreams. There are also tonnes of practices to do solo until you do find someone to work with!
This course is self paced, so when you sign up, you immediately gain access and get to go through the content at your own pace. You can complete the modules in any order you like, but we recommend starting with the first 2 modules then bouncing around wherever you desire!
You can join us on the community calls when you have questions, but besides that it's up to you to explore in your time and at the pace that feels right for you.
We're so excited for more beings on this planet to explore Tantric Kink with us, are you going to join us?
We have split this course into some main sections that you can jump around depending on what interests you.
We recommend starting with the intro, safety and communication sections before anything else because the key to deep, sexy scenes is SAFETY!
From there you can explore whatever jumps out to you most!
There is so much content in this course you can take your time to dive in and explore over months or years.
Welcome and how to use this course | Who we are | Disclaimer - Important to read!
Initiation into course Language | What Tantra and Kink have in Common | Tantric History and Kink | Benefits of Kink/BDSM and Tantra | Choosing your Partner | Rituals and Kink | Trauma Aware Kink
Introduction to Communication | Internal Attitude | How to start a Session - Check In | Traffic Light System and Safewords | Aftercare for Bottoms and Tops
Importance of Self Connection | Meditation for Grounding and Finding Intention | Practicing Kinky Self Exploration | Guided Kinky Self Pleasure
Intro to Partner Play and Dynamics | Finding common Ground | Intro to Connection Exercises | Eye Gazing | The 3 minute Game | Heart to Heart Breathing | Kinky Heart to Heart Breathing | Somatic Secret & Fantasy Sharing
Intro talk about ideas and options | Bossy Massage | Dom/Sub Exercise Demo
Introduction to Impact Play | Flogging | Spanking | BONUS: Impact Ritual
The Power of Breath, Sounds and Movement | Microcosmic Orbit for Partners | Spreading Energy | Introduction to the Eye of the Pain | Introduction to the 3 States of Awareness
Introduction to the world of Senses | Sensory Activation | Activation through Candle/Wax Play | Sensory Deprivation | Breath Play | BONUS: 5 Senses Session
Introduction to Primal Play | Rough Body Play | Playfighting | Primal Ritual
Introduction to Fantasy Play | Meditation to find your Fantasy / Role Play | BONUS: Tantric God/dess Ritual
Intro to Resourcing and Emotional Care | Moving Emotions | Emotional Transfiguration
We'd love to have you join our community of tantric kinksters. We have a few options available for payments, whether you want a payment plan or you're ready to pay all up-front! All members have access to the 'Sensual Artists' community where you can chat and share about your experiences.
6 payments of €75/month
Get unlimited access to this amazing course and pay over 6 months!
Total cost €450
3 payments of €140/month
Get unlimited access to this amazing course and pay over 3 months!
Total cost €420
Pay upfront and get unlimited access to the whole course for as long as you need!
Course + coaching
This package includes either 2x 60 min or 1x 120 minute coaching session with either Sanya or Luna to take your exploration to the next level, personally guiding you through blockages, resistance or conditioning that is holding you back from your expression.
Yes you can! We suggest you create a joint account that you share a password for so that you can keep track of your progress through the course. If you both have accounts with the Sensual Arts School from other programs you can request to have the course added to your individual school accounts.
This course is built on some traditional tantric techniques and philosophies, but it is a neo-tantric course as we don’t implement the full traditional Tantrika path and focus much more on sexuality than traditional Tantra would. In traditional tantra only a tiny percentage of the teachings are connected to sexuality or partnered work! The focus of this course is not mainly on sexuality, but on liberating yourself, about integrating consciousness, and about self development into your regular life. We believe that sexuality is a pathway to higher states of awareness and consciousness, but we don’t consider sexual pleasure as the main goal or “final destination” on your life path. We also combine the practices with modern embodiment tools, trauma aware practices and somatic empowerment.
While tantra and kink might seem quite opposed to each other for some folks, there are many aspects that can be beautifully combined. We have dedicated a whole section to explain and elaborate this question.
The exercises that we are sharing are mostly combining elements of those two worlds and bringing for example tantric breathing techniques into your kink play, however there are practices in traditional tantra that work with ‘intense’ forms of sensation and experiences to expand awareness and explore the internal world, and these type of practices are common in kink and BDSM, as well as working with facing taboos and exploring non-duality.
This course suits all kinds of levels and absolute beginners too. We cover a lot of topics that will introduce you to tantra and kink and will support you in creating safe spaces and sessions. For beginners we recommend taking some extra time for integration and practice, before moving on to the next topic- and not expecting that after doing one online course that you will become a master. Exploring kink and tantra are both lifetime paths and interests that take time to embody and understand- this will give you a great starting point on your journey!
Attending our course does not replace professional, psychological or medical advice!
While many of the exercises are designed to move or release emotions and to liberate shame, this is no promise for any sort of healing. With this sort of work self healing mechanisms and potential MIGHT get activated.
If you have some active trauma or medical conditions that could be risky for your attendance, we highly recommend consulting your psychologist or doctor first. Sanya Alaya and Sensual Artistry do not take any responsibilities in this regard.
This course is made to bring you expansion and exploration and juiciness into your private life, but DOES NOT MAKE YOU A PROFESSIONAL OF ANY SORT!
The exercises and methods that we are sharing are for private use only and please note, that if we would teach them to a public group we would do them differently and add quite some elements. So the content of this course is NOT for others to teach. We offer training and mentorship for people wanting to become facilitators.
There are many factors that determine your level of “being a good lover” and it would be a whole other course to cover all of them. We believe that being able to create a safe and trusted space, good communication, consent and boundaries, playfulness and creativity are some of the most important “lover abilities” to connect sexually with another being. Many of those topics are covered in this course and can help you in those areas.
Sexuality is a big topic in most relationships and often faces the challenge of differing interests and desires. While we encourage everyone to experiment and open up it is important to understand that any kind of pressure mostly leads to the opposite. If you tried considerate and compassionate talking and sharing, and your other part does not want to participate with you, you could consider taking this course for yourself at first - if this is within your relationship boundaries. You can also consider discussing the option of exploring non-sexual kink with people outside your relationship if that suits your dynamic.
If you feel there might be bigger underlying topics you might want to consider a 1:1 coaching session with Sanya or Luna, or couples coaching with Luna, to support you in finding an approach that satisfies you both.
There are many different ways and possibilities to learn or deepen your skills and everyone has to find their own way. Learning The Art of Tantric Kink in the format of an online course gives you the benefit of being able to do it at your very own pace. Also you can repeat any section as often as you want for as much time as you need. Another advantage of learning online is that you can access all the content and exercises from any place where you feel comfortable and practice in absolute privacy with no other people around, than your selected one(-s). However really embodying and learning this will take dedication to practice and exploring- just watching the videos will not replace real life experience and exploration. The course gives you the tools to start this real life exploration.
If you are not happy with the course and didn’t get anything out of it we offer you an inquiry call with the option of getting a full refund. Please contact us before the end of 14 days after your purchase.
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
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